Attachment Style
Attachment Assessment
What you'll learn
- Framework: Attachment
- Primary lens: relationship expectations, closeness patterns, and comfort with dependence
- 2 related games that complement this assessment
- The Empathetic Connector is the closest interpretation layer to explore next
Overview
Attachment Style Assessment reveals how you form emotional bonds in close relationships. Rooted in attachment theory, it identifies whether your patterns are secure, anxious, avoidant, or disorganized.
What It Measures
Your dominant attachment style across two dimensions: anxiety (fear of abandonment) and avoidance (discomfort with closeness).
What It Does Not Measure By Itself
It does not diagnose mental health conditions or fully explain every relationship dynamic.
How It Fits Into Pattern
Pattern uses attachment as a self-view layer that helps explain why certain emotional or social signals show up in play and feedback.
The Science Behind It
Attachment theory was developed by John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth in the 1960s-70s. Adult attachment research shows that early relational patterns influence how we approach intimacy, trust, and conflict throughout life.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can my attachment style change?
Yes — attachment styles are not fixed. Secure relationships, therapy, and self-awareness can shift insecure patterns toward earned security over time.
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Use This Lens In Context
Add This Lens To The Bigger Picture
Use this assessment as self-view context, then compare it against the signal layer and the interpretation layer.
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